August 29, 2010
“Wherever you see a successful business, someone
once made a courageous decision.”
One potential negative consequence of a prolonged economic downturn is a shift toward conservative decision-making. Experiencing loss can make us tentative, less willing to take chances. We tend to avoid risks that may result in additional losses. The problem with this reaction can be found on the walls of just about any weight-lifting gym in America:
No Pain, No Gain.
More elegantly stated:
“We learn wisdom from failure much more than success. We often discover what we will do, by finding out what we will not do.”
If we act only when success is assured, we lose one of our best sources of growth and knowledge – failure. As Henry Ford said:
“One who fears failure limits his activities.
Failure is only the opportunity to more
intelligently begin again.”
Those who turn adversity into success will be those who are willing to accept the possibility of failure and take those actions they believe will lead them to their chosen goals.
“Little minds are tamed and subdued by misfortunes; but great minds rise above them.”
Dare to be GREAT!!!!!!!!
August 24, 2010
Quote of the Week
Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement.
Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.
So, here is the million dollar question: How can you feel optimistic when you just lost 2 escrows and the one remaining is a short sale you’ve been nursing for 8 months? How can you feel confident when nothing seems to be working for you? (I know that was two questions)
The answer is simple. Your level of optimism cannot be contingent upon how well “things are going.” Self-confidence cannot be contingent on whether you are currently successful. Huh? Yes, that is what I meant to say. Allowing your feelings to be contingent on past and present results is my definition of VICTIMHOOD.
You have no control over your feelings when you allow them to be shaped by past or current results. They become like corks bouncing on the waves, controlled by the winds and the currents. Is this how you want to live? Of course not.
So, how do you break the relationship between what you see and what you believe? The same way you master anything—the same way you get to Carnegie Hall—practice, practice, practice. Detach your feelings from current events. Focus on your vision of the future. Visualize yourself as a happy, healthy, successful person and allow that image to mold your feelings. Yes you will feel better, but more than that—your positive, optimistic attitude will attract people into your life who can help you to succeed.
When you radiate self-confidence, others feel confident in your abilities.